Monday, May 26, 2025

Additional Thoughts about Memorial Day

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In my last post I said I don’t usually do picnics on Memorial Day. Here’s why: this isn’t a “happy” holiday. This is a day of solemn remembrance for those who have fallen in the line of duty to their country. I always feel so conflicted about eating potato salad and hitting the pool in those circumstances, you know?

But life has been rough lately. And it’s rare I’m not working on a weekend or have a to-do list a mile long. And frankly, we need to be social once in a while, and our neighbors work hard to give people social opportunities here. So we went. 

At today’s picnic, I was glad to see that they began by playing a speech honoring fallen service members, followed by a  moment of silence. You could hear a pin drop in that room.

They played an old Memorial Day speech originally
made by Ronald Reagan in the 80s


And actually, it was so nice to meet some of our neighbors. We had really interesting conversations with them. And they had a door prize, these candles, which I won. So when I got home, I lit this candle in memory of those who are gone. That feels appropriate. 

One of the candles from a set
I won in a door prize.
I lit it in honor of the fallen and
will let it go all night.



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Memorial Day Socializing

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I don’t usually do this but we decided to go to the neighborhood picnic today. I made a pasta salad so let’s hope people like it!

You can’t see it but I am wearing red, white, and blue! πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ


Saturday, May 24, 2025

French Toast on a Saturday

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I saw our bread was getting slightly stale, so I decided to make French toast this morning. Hit me with your favorite French toast recipes! 

My usual is:
🍞 Bread that’s getting a little stale
πŸ₯šEgg (can stretch with egg whites too)
πŸ₯›Milk or half n half (whatever I’ve got)
 πŸ¨Vanilla extract or other flavor (I’ve used pumpkin, orange, strawberry...)
🫚Cinnamon (or some other spice blend like apple pie spice, pumpkin pie spice, etc.)
πŸ₯£crushed corn flakes or other cereal if you want a crust after dipping in the egg mixture


Soaking in my grandmother's Jadeite bowl


You know the drill: mix it all in a shallow dish and then dip/soak the bread. If you want a crust, then dip in the crushed cereal. Then onto a hot griddle, cook, flip, cook some more.

For two people I can stretch 1 egg by adding egg whites and the milk, plus it’s slightly less fat if you watch that stuff, but let's not fool ourselves: It’s French toast. It’s not going to be healthy. Carbs turn to fat. πŸ˜… I like to serve it with a sausage patty. 

Anyway, what’s your favorite way to make French toast?

It may not be beautiful, but it was delish! 


Saturday, May 17, 2025

ConCarolinas 2025 panels have been announced!

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I'm so excited to share that I will be on eight panels across the weekend at ConCarolinas 2025. This is a convention I've attended every year for several years in a row, traveling 3.5 hours to Charlotte just to be with people with similar interests to mine. My husband and I have enjoyed getting away to it every year, so when I applied as a panelist and was accepted, to say I'm thrilled is an understatement. Below is my schedule (subject to change if needed, of course): 

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Friday, May 30

4:30p Organization for the Unorganized (Glenwaters)


Saturday May 31

10:30a Deconstructing Your Past: Unlocking Growth in Your Present (Glenwaters)
12:30p Dragons, Sea Serpents, and Water Monsters: Cryptids of the Deep (Burnham)
7:00p Famous True Crime Updates (Harris)
10:00p Bedtime Stories (Harris)


Sunday June 1

9:00a Time Slips, Glitches in Reality, and the Mandela Effect (Burnham)
10:30a The Goatman, the Lizardman, and the Bunny Man (Burnham)
1:30p What to Read When You Live in a Dystopia? (Keynes)


This is a family-friendly event with something for everyone. Get your tickets and see the full schedule HERE

Sunday, May 11, 2025

Happy Mother's Day

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Happy Mother's Day to all of you who fill that role...especially to my beautiful mom and also my beautiful mother-in-law (older photos below). Hope you all have a wonderful day!



We celebrated by calling my mother-in-law (who lives a few states away) and cooking a nice dinner for my mom, who we're more local to (hamburgers on the grill and homemade pasta salad, per her request). It was a nice day, and I'm so grateful we can celebrate these wonderful women on ANY day, but especially on this day. 




Wednesday, May 7, 2025

When Life Hits: Ask for Help

Friends, we need your help. My husband was laid off from his job and is looking for a new one. We're looking for leads on a Site Reliability Engineer / Linux Administrator role. 

Below is a quick summary of his experience/strengths. If you have any leads, I'm happy to share his resume if your org is hiring or if you know someone who knows someone. Thanks in advance for your help! 
  • Extensive experience designing, deploying, and managing large
  • scale, high-availability systems. 
  • Strong focus in scripting and automation, enabling efficient system provisioning, configuration management, and task orchestration. 
  • Skilled in integrating open-source tools with modern workflows to support complex data pipelines. 
  • Known for deep technical knowledge, reliability, and the ability to bridge legacy systems with cutting-edge technologies.

See LinkedIn for more details on his experience. Thanks in advance for your help!

Monday, May 5, 2025

International Bereaved Mother's Day: May 4, 2025

(cross-posted from social media)

International Bereaved Mother's Day is on the first Sunday in May, which this year happened to coincide with what is typically a day of celebration for us (an anniversary). I found myself torn: do I acknowledge both? 

I decided not to post yesterday about that sad time in our lives. I chose instead to share our immense joy. Life is short, and we've taken a lot of hits over our 18 years together, especially in these last few months, so I decided to focus on the good, which is a lifeline for me.

But that doesn't mean I didn't feel it somewhere in there. I let it float in and out of my awareness as it wanted to, but I didn't focus on it or hang onto those feelings. I am feeling them more today, though.

Some years I pull out the little blanket a friend had made for what was supposed to be our happy occasion. That blanket actually gives me comfort, because it symbolizes love: for each other, for our child, and the love of a friend who made something beautiful for our baby with her own hands.

Had things been different, our child would be getting ready to graduate high school soon. I sometimes can't fathom that. 

For you moms out there who've also lost a child, I see you, I feel you, and I am sending my love to you this week and always. If I can do anything for you, even just listen or sit with you, I'm here. ❤️πŸ™πŸ»




Clouds Clouds Clouds!

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Look at these amazing clouds we had last night! I love living in such beauty!

Taken on the NC/SC border near Little River, SC


Sunday, May 4, 2025

Eighteen Years Together

How to sum up 18 years since our first date? 


πŸ™πŸ» Gratitude. 
❤️ Love. 
πŸ€ͺ Silliness. 
πŸ‘« Partnership. 
🀣 Laughter.

Thanks for finding me, Fred.


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